The most powerful tool that you possess is your mind, it allows you to achieve anything. From the second that you’re born it’s already begun working and it does that till the day that you die. As humans we constantly build and develop our environments in order to improve our lives. The smartest of people know that they should do the same with their minds and fill it with dreams and purpose as well.
Why Spend Time Alone?
By spending enough time alone you’ll realize that that’s where ideas are born. The issue with common social circles and environments is that they limit your belief and thus kill your creativity. In solace you allow yourself to believe without any limitations. Keep in mind that true solace extends to your social media as well. Taking the time out to focus on you and not worrying about what other people are doing or achieving is what allows you to succeed at what you want to do. Simply ignore everything that’s either negative or unnecessary. Thereafter watch how much you’ll begin to believe in yourself a whole lot more.
What you constantly see and experience determines who you are and how you think. Place enough memes in your face and you’ll become the funniest person in the room. Place someone you believe is at your level and have them always succeed whilst you don’t and you’ll see your esteem dissipate. However, when you constantly view successful people that you admire and you listen or read about them you’ll believe in yourself a lot more. Spending time alone and away from anything that can disturb you is imperative when you need to achieve something. After a short period of time you’ll realize that you can live without your distractions; that is if they were distractions…
You only realize that you’ve always been the problem when you don’t act even when you’re alone. It’s easy to not accept blame and to believe that you’re the victim. Many people do that and you’ve identified someone like this in your life for sure. Normally, you only spend a lot of time alone when you’re looking to accomplish something. Keep in mind that where there’s company there’s usually noise. Noise can also be any form of negativity, which means you can cause it as well and more-often-than-not you make the most noise.
What many people struggle to realize is that the negative thoughts that they believe others have of them are unfounded. Seeing one person fail is enough reason for some people to never try and hence they never do. This takes you back to what was stated in the previous paragraph on what you place in front of you. Please don’t confuse what’s being said, you should pay careful attention in order to understand the reasons why people don’t succeed but still allow yourself to be inspired by those that succeed.
When you look at your life and think about any idea you’ve believed to be great, it won’t take hours before you realize that during those times you were alone. Time that’s truly spent alone is time that can be made productive. Not everyone is disciplined enough to stay away from anything that can prove distracting. Discipline is one of the hardest things to achieve and takes an immense burning desire to achieve that not everyone possesses. Without discipline you can still achieve although your progress will be slower. It all boils down to what you desire and how much it means to you.
THE THINKING POINT
Spend that time alone and you’ll open your own eyes. They say that you only need to have one idea and the rest will come to you naturally. If you’re alert you’d take advantage of that loophole whilst you’re still young and don’t have much responsibility. The older you become the more challenging life becomes. You start something early and when time for full responsibility comes around you’ll already be prepared. It doesn’t need to be a whole year that you spend alone, not even a month although if it were that long it’d still be worth it in the end.
It’s very easy to spend time on your own improving yourself. Quite often a task that simple is made difficult due to an impending desire to be surrounded by others caused by an underlying feeling of weakness. Try your best to never fall into the trap of relying on groups because they might be prove discouraging. Time spent alone is the best time for your future.