We know that this might be nearly impossible to believe, seriously difficult in fact, especially if you’re in a slump and feeling down about yourself, however, it’s quite true that people like you more than you think they do. What’s actually nearly impossible is having nobody like you at all.
You see, everyone has people that admire them for what they do or for who they are. Admiration needs not be public to be present and felt, it begins from within for the place best to begin is always with self. Therefore choose begin with self because people admire you and the only reason you think they don’t is because you don’t admire yourself as yet. There’s so much that you’re good at and so much more that you could be great at, however, all you need to do is believe in the right things first and the one right thing is yourself. What you believe is your reality. Therefore, try your best to not then condemn yourself to negative self-destroying thoughts.
It’s very easy to think negatively about yourself based on the reception you receive from those around you and almost everyone does that. Although, those that don’t think negatively about themselves due to how it seems they’re being perceived are confident people, people that some of you reading this might be or might want to be. Confidence is a gift that not everyone possesses however anyone can attain. In this text it isn’t mostly about an overview of confidence, instead, it’s about self-consciousness; how you feel about yourself, because if you like you, then other people are going to like you as well. Those who give themselves positive self-affirmations are doing the right thing, they’re programming themselves to believe what they need to believe in order for them to be happier and in order for them to be able to love themselves even more.
It’s crazy how positive self-affirmations can work when it comes to your mind. The more you tell yourself positive things about yourself is the more you believe them and what that will do is allow you to see the world in a different light, you’ll view things for what they are all the time. Believe us when we tell you that a lot of the negative things that you might think people say or feel about you aren’t true at all. The only time that you can believe that something is completely true about you is if you’ve asked and received an honest opinion or if really and truly everyone, everywhere that you go people keep on saying the same thing about you and that’s after they’ve gotten to know you. Simple look at yourself carefully and you’ll realise that there isn’t anything wrong with you, you’re fine the way that you are and sometimes it’s just that the people around you don’t know how to appreciate the type of person that you are.
People like you and you just fail to see it. Change your way of looking at yourself and at the world and only thereafter will you realize that people like you and if they didn’t before they’ll start to do so.